Male or female, straight or gay, we all have an Inner Patriarch and an Inner Matriarch inside us. Dealing with Inner Matriarchs and Patriarchs can involve subtle and not so subtle differences depending which one is the more powerful. It’s not about gender preferences or sexuality. It’s about the different ways things work depending on your energy system.
If your primary energy system is male you will tend to have the bigger problems with your Inner Matriarch and also with Inner Matriarchs in other people. If your primary energy system is female you will tend to have more problems with your Inner Patriarch and with Inner Patriarchs in other people. Sidra Stone has devoted an entire book to the inner patriarch in her exceptional work “The Shadow King” where she explains what women can do to reduce the influence the negative effects of the Inner Patriarch.
On this site I am setting out to do something similar for males in terms of the problems they face with Inner Matriarchs.
How can I deal with these two Toxic Trouble Makers ? There are ways to deal with these two trouble makers. The first step is self-awareness, recognising and unmasking what they are doing inside you. The day you can say to your own Inner Patriarch and Inner Matriarch “I am on to you now! I can see you fighting inside me and I don’t want it happening any more!” is the day you start to reduce their power over you and begin repairing the terrible damage they have been doing to your relationships.
The day your partner says to you “I know that was your Inner Matriarch / Patriarch speaking. I do not like him / her and I know he / she doesn’t like me. I am so glad it is not the real person I love!” is a wonderful day for both of you. This site will help you in your struggle to free yourself from their hold and get back to loving, caring grown-up relationships again.
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the Key to Balancing your Life.
Balance and unblock your inner clamps www.core-beliefs-balance.com Core beliefs are
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we want to in life. This site will help you to diagnose your own unique negative
core belief and then balance it.
Loving and Protecting Inner Children everywhere www.love-your-inner-child.com Dedicated
to inner children everywhere. A magical site with some practical advice on how to
love, protect and care for your own Inner child using voice dialogue and other skills
including visualisation and story telling..
A Self Awareness site to help Men and Women overcome the toxic influence of their
Inner Patriarch and Inner Matriarch www.growingaware.net Self awareness and self empowerment
can work differently for women and men. At the heart of these differences are two
extremely dangerous inner selves - the Inner Matriarch and the Inner Patriarch. They
fight each other constantly and they encourage fights between men and women. The
only thing they have in common is that they are both dedicated to keeping all men
and all women out of loving, successful grown-up relationships at home, at work or
anywhere else. We all have an Inner Patriarch and an Inner Matriarch inside us but
there is much we can do to reduce their toxic influence.
Experiments in an alternative style of Voice Dialogue www.growingaware.com An experimental
and alternate way of explaining voice dialogue using easy to visualise descriptions,
fables and analogies based around life in the the "inner village" and the journey
as we climb further up "Awareness Hill " WARNING this website does not use classic
voice dialogue wording.
“..... A remarkable tool for self help and empowerment”
From Hal Stone PhD and Sidra Stone PhD authors of “Embracing Our Selves” and creators
of Voice Dialogue and the Psychology of the Selves
Your Inner Matriarch and Inner Patriarch While they Fight you Lose - You halt them - You win
At the heart of so much of the fighting in relationships are two extremely dangerous inner selves - the Inner Matriarch and the Inner Patriarch. They fight each other constantly and they encourage fights particularly between men and women.
The only thing they have in common is that they are both dedicated to keeping all men and all women out of loving,trusting successful grown-up relationships at home, at work or anywhere else.
While these two characters are fighting they destroy our friendships, break down trust, kill love. Depending on which of the toxic two are the more powerful they can block self awareness in males or clamp females. They can stop everyone from growing their self awareness and self empowerment. Now you can discover ways to deal with these two dangerous characters and undo the harm they have created fighting their endless battles inside us.
We all start out with our Inner Patriarch and our Inner Matriarch at war inside us.
But there is much we can do to reduce the damage they cause as they fight their endless
battles and try to drag us, our partners and our families into what is their war,
not ours
A Self Awareness site to help Men and Women deal with their Inner Patriarchs and Inner Matriarchs
